I Thought I Already Healed This
If an old pattern shows up this week, before you decide you’re right back where you started, pause long enough to notice who is standing here now. We don’t return to the same place as the same woman.

If an old pattern shows up this week, before you decide you’re right back where you started, pause long enough to notice who is standing here now. We don’t return to the same place as the same woman.

The way you learned to be doesn’t have to be the only way you know how to be. And the decisions you made 10, 20 or 30 years ago don’t have to decide what happens next. You get to participate in deciding what your life becomes.

Say no occasionally when you mean no. Say yes when you actually mean yes. And when someone doesn’t love your answer, notice the urge to immediately make everything okay again.

The question isn’t: Who am I supposed to be now? You’ve probably had enough people answering that question for you. Try this instead: Who do I want to be now?